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Jude - A naturally dyed life
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Jude joins Wolf and Mer to detail her transition from climbing dirtbag with a secondhand rattail to homesteading mama. She shares how growing up on her Nana’s remote island farm inspired her to lead a similar lifestyle, including raising sheep, spinning their wool into yarn, and dyeing it herself. They all agree that everyone’s a little bit of a horse gorl, and briefly consider Wolf’s funeral arrangements.
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The sudden thunder clapped and wolf taking two breaks suddenly clapped.
SPEAKER_00We need to look at the night sky.
SPEAKER_05Be prepared to sink and feel in.
SPEAKER_02There are no end.
SPEAKER_00Not knowing what's out there. Let's do it. Alright, welcome to the wonder pod. This week we're here with Jude Coleman.
SPEAKER_03Jude Coleman. Pew pew pew.
SPEAKER_00Thanks for being on the show.
SPEAKER_03Thanks for having me.
SPEAKER_01This is our least favorite part. We're breaking the fourth wall. We're talking to the audience, whereas the rest of it, we're talking to each other. So it really sucks for like the intro and the closer. We both hate it.
SPEAKER_00The closer is easier because you're just like, you're done. You know, it's like you don't have to lead it into anything, but you're here.
SPEAKER_01You're listening. God. Jude, tell us three things about yourself. We're diving right in. They are raw dogging it this time.
SPEAKER_04Okay. Um so the first thing about me, I feel like, is the obvious of my living situation is kind of cute as in a tiny house. Um with my husband and my three-month-old baby, and um our two dogs outside of the tiny house is three sheep and six chickens. Wow. Um and uh innumerable birds and bees and bugs. No bats. Bats. No, there's bats. Yeah. And you're in the sisters. I'm very close to sisters, yeah. I'm like technically uh I'm technically in the band zip still. Oh I didn't know that. Yeah, yeah. I'm like between Tomalow and Sisters, but it's like seven minutes to sisters, so for all intents and purposes. I would like to come over. You should. Yeah, yeah. Um one day we will have a gathering again. Yes. Okay. Hopefully soon. Yes. Yeah. Okay. I would be delighted for you both to come.
SPEAKER_01Thank you.
SPEAKER_04Yeah. We cordially accept. Good.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_04What's the second thing? The second thing is in a faster duration of my current life, um, aka about eight years ago, um, I was a mega climbing dirt bag. That is who I was. And I did the whole damn thing where I like graduated college and I built out my Honda element. And I was just like traveling around the West Coast, climbing in my element, uh, literally and figuratively. Um and after being on the road for like two weeks, I think, I adopted my dog Sol. Uh so I was in a Honda Element with a dog who is a sizable dog. He's like 50 pounds. Oh my god. Um, yeah. And uh yeah, so that was uh that was a great big part of my life. Um just being so dirt baggy. I did lots of dumpster diving. Ooh. Lots of good for you. Yeah, thank you. Thank you. Um there's probably a lot of treasures in there that you found. Uh you know, yes, and also non-treasures, obviously. Um yeah. I one time found like I want to say like 10 pounds of oranges that seemed completely fine, and so I made a bunch of marmalade, which was cool. I guess at this point I was uh I wasn't living in the element I was living in Moab at that time, still fully in the dirt bag phase of my life, but um, I did not make marmalade in my haunted element.
SPEAKER_01With your big dog, with my big dog. Um why do you think that we call people like you dirt bags? You know, if I'm wondering about yeah, because you sleep in the dirt.
SPEAKER_04I yeah, I think do they? Yeah, oh yeah, oh for sure.
SPEAKER_00You just throw your sleeping bag down in the dirt and go to sleep.
SPEAKER_04Climbers are dirt bags. Do all climbers sleep in the dirt? No, but not all climbers are dirtbags. Absolutely. I think to be honest, I think that like it originally went back to like uh the Yosemite folks who were like pioneering climbing in Yosemite, um, like Dean Potter and the like. Um and um Yvonne Chenort. Yep, that duder, whose name I still yeah, cannot pronounce, even though like how many times have I seen this guy's name? Um yeah, because they were literally sleeping in the dirt. But then also I think there is a a you know, a sprinkling of the spice of like the um more like derogatory side of it of like, oh that guy's a dirt bag from the sense of like not good.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, not great.
SPEAKER_04Like if all you're doing is like digging in dumpsters and climbing and like smelling real bad, like you know, I think some climbing dirt bags do do some genuine dirt bag things. Like, yeah, yeah. So I think that that's where that comes from. But for sure there's a positive connotation too of like you are just a dirt bag, a bag of dirt at this point from your climbing adventures.
SPEAKER_01So you mean that you're dirty? Yes. Yes. And was that the el the part of that name that resonated with you, the dirty aspect, or was there a part of it, another part that you connected with?
SPEAKER_04Um, I for sure was dirty, yeah. I I mean, because like showers were few and far between. I remember uh for a hot minute, um, I would sneak into the Dixie State College locker room, female uh women's locker room, uh, and use their showers because the uh okay the locker room was on the other side of the gym. So they tapped in your ID at the gym, not the locker room. So if you just like walked in and went straight to the locker room, no one bats you in. Anyone could go in. Yeah. Um I dyed my hair hot pink in that locker room. Wow. Yeah, so but I was I did, you know, on the road. I'm on the road for sure. Absolutely. Yeah. I mean, I think I also connected. A different type of marmalade.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_04I think I connected to like the other, like um like the connotations we have with being a dirtbag like these days, also to it, like just from the sense of like just being very vagabondy and uh climbing really was like the majority of my personality. Like totally committed to it.
SPEAKER_00Like I feel like there's like a romantic aspect to it that's like okay, I'm just committing my life entirely to this one endeavor, right? I'm not doing and I'm like not I'm spending as little money as possible so that I have as much time and money to put into climbing as possible.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, for sure. Yeah, and I think that there was uh lots of like, I mean that's that's probably like the phase of my life where I have like the most hilarious anecdotes from of just like stories where I'm just like, oh my god, remember when? And like that's when I was a dirtbag. Um yeah. My best friend, uh hi Ellie, I love you. Um, she specifically told me that I needed to mention that at one point in my life I had a rat tail, but it was my own hair.
SPEAKER_05Oh, even worse.
SPEAKER_04I gave my friend a haircut, and like at this point I had really, really short hair, like like mare's length of hair. I saw your pick on your website. Wow, wow, wow, yeah, and it was even shorter than that. That was when I was like in my surfer girl phase and I had like more longer hair, but in Moab, I was like, it was really short, but I really wanted a rat tail, and so I gave my friend Jane a haircut and I was like, hey dude, can I like have for your hair? And I like braided it.
SPEAKER_01Wow. So you guys were so close. Were we close, or did I just have the audacity? No, I mean you had her hair on your head, so I feel like that's pretty intimate.
SPEAKER_04That is true, yeah. It was she was with me for a long time.
SPEAKER_01Did you have weird dreams after that?
SPEAKER_04No, no, no weirder than the usual yeah, interesting, yeah.
SPEAKER_01Um yikes.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, real, like I said, dirtbag. Yeah, real dirt bag. True, yeah. Okay, number three. Um, okay, number three, my aforementioned sheep that I have at aforementioned tiny house. Um, I spin their wool into yarn, which is my fun fact. That is your fun fact. Yeah, that's my like mega fun fact. Yeah. So now I've kind of replaced climbing with being a fiber dirt bag. I'm not the fiber bag. Fiber bag. Exactly. Yes, yes. Um, yeah, I'm very obsessed with fiber art and natural fibers and my sheep. I've been obsessed with my sheep.
SPEAKER_01Have you been knitting um adorable bonnets for your baby?
SPEAKER_04I have not yet knit anything for Winnie. I just I think because I was working on another project while I was pregnant that I wanted to get done and didn't get it done. Spoiler. Um, and then since having her, I she only contact naps. So I actually don't have a whole lot of like free hands, free time.
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_04Um so I haven't made her anything yet. But Matt made her, let's see, he made her two beanies and two pairs of socks. Oh super cute.
SPEAKER_01So cute out of your yarn, not out of my yarn.
SPEAKER_04Um, yeah, my yarn. So the pipeline of like sheep to knitted garment is so involved and takes so much time. Do you dye it as well? I do sometimes dye it, yeah. Um, yeah, which it just adds another element to it. So I've been working on a cardigan for a year now that's like just from my sheep's fleece. And so everything that I've been spinning pretty much has been going to that, other than a few skeins that I spun for a friend as a gift. But um, yeah. And then spinning takes so much time too. It's like I def you definitely can't do that while holding a baby. So like every limb is occupied.
SPEAKER_01I mean, I only know about it from what sleeping beauty.
SPEAKER_04I guess that's an accurate representation. Pretty accurate.
SPEAKER_00You never went to like those old like towns where there's like actors and stuff, like showing you how like the pioneers lived and stuff.
SPEAKER_04No, I guess I didn't.
SPEAKER_00There's always a woman there spinning yarn.
SPEAKER_04That's so weird that you've never done that. Have you never done that? No. What I did that so much as a kid. Okay, weird.
SPEAKER_00I guess maybe there's maybe it's more of an East Coast thing. More old towns.
SPEAKER_04Definitely. Okay, there you go. Yeah. Yeah. That makes sense.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. That's true. And actually, the ones I've been to out here, there's not like reenactors usually. It's just like here's an old town, you pay six dollars and you walk around. Oh, they are LARPing. Yeah. But they're like, they're loving it, you know.
SPEAKER_01LARPing and loving it. Hashtag LARP and love. Um, how do you dye it? Your wool yarn wool.
SPEAKER_04Um yeah, I so I mean the kind of short explanation of the process is you make a dye bath with whatever you're gonna dye with. You can use beets. Um calendula, mustard. Let's see, mustard probably wouldn't do anything. Calangula, you probably get like a faint yellow. Okay. Um beets so a lot of a lot of really vibrant stuff like beets are what we call fugitive colors, which means that it dyes it, but then it washes out. There's no staining power behind the dye. And so certain plant pigments, it it depends on like the basically like the molecular structure of the pigment, if it's going to bond on to the structure of the wool. Yeah. And so you first treat your wool. Oh my god, sorry. You first treat the wool uh with something called a mordant, which is um uh there's a bunch of different ones. I typically use alum, which is I think it's short short for aluminum. I'm pretty sure it's like a derivative of aluminum. Um and it kind of acts as like a middleman, so that bonds onto the wool. And then when you put the wool into your dye, the dye actually bonds on to the mordant and and the wool. So it like helps it helps keep those dyes in. So first you would mordant, then you would make your dye bath, whatever you're gonna use. I use flowers most of the time. Um, last year I tried to use indigo, which like had mixed results. Um, and usually you just make those baths with like steeping whatever part of the plant you're using, so kind of like just making a strong tea. Um and then you dunk your wool in and you just leave it until you feel like the color is good.
SPEAKER_01Um I mean, how long would you leave it?
SPEAKER_04It it totally, yeah, it totally depends. Um, some dyes you don't have to leave for very long at all. Um, like marigolds, I really like using marigolds, and that's like uh it's it's kind of more of like a yellow, yeah, on the yellow side of orange. Um that you can get away with like five minutes in the dive round. Yeah, but then there's other stuff. Um, another thing I really like dying with is lichen. There's a type of lichen that grows in the woods around here. Um I can't remember what the Litharia Vulpina, I think, wolf lichen. Okay. And it gives you this incredible, like, it's like a day glow yellow. Where it's like almost green. It's really cool. And that you want to like leave it to soak overnight. And that's how you get the most oomph out of it. So it's really yeah, and that's what's fun about dying too, is it's like such an experiment and like such a I don't know, it's like so many things can affect what's happening and like give you different results. So it's just very variable, which makes it fun and a lot of experimenting and yeah, excited. Okay. Wow. Are we ready to spin the wheel of Wunda? Um excited for the wheel. Are you gonna skip core childhood memory again? As you did setting time. Okay.
SPEAKER_00I don't know. Maybe, maybe we'll maybe we'll get a good one this week. Okay. Okay, we'll see. We'll see where we get.
SPEAKER_01We're hoping that you get spin a yarn. No pun intended.
SPEAKER_00Wow, no pun intended, but we were like it would be good.
SPEAKER_01Okay, let's manage. But we were thinking earlier, like, oh, we haven't gotten to spin a yarn yet. Did it actually come?
SPEAKER_04Spin a yarn! We got it! That's incredible. Oh my gosh. Okay. Tell me more.
SPEAKER_01So the way this works is that we are gonna create a story together. Okay. We're gonna go around one word at a time. Oh, I love it. Who wants to start? Who has a word? At wolf's funeral. We delighted in. I don't love that we're talking about your funeral. Um, we delighted in gaping.
SPEAKER_03Holes of dough.
SPEAKER_01Oh, that's two words, bro.
SPEAKER_00Sorry, I took off. It's my funeral, okay?
SPEAKER_01Holes of dough. Dough. Okay, holes of dough. Uh, I can work with that, I guess.
SPEAKER_03The sudden thunder. Clapped and wolf taking two brains.
SPEAKER_00Suddenly.
SPEAKER_03Clapped. In time. With death.
SPEAKER_00Period. I think that's good.
SPEAKER_01Wow. Wow. I'm sweating.
SPEAKER_00What a roller coaster.
SPEAKER_01You know what? Spinning yarn always gets me so sweaty.
SPEAKER_04Um, I mean, I can imagine this one in particular.
SPEAKER_01Like, yeah, like him clapping suddenly, like, wow.
SPEAKER_00Clapping suddenly in time with death, though, is great because it's like, does that just mean I didn't clap at all, right?
SPEAKER_04I mean, like Or does it mean you just really slowly clapped? Like you're just in your grave, like, oh slow clapping. Slow clap. Good job, death.
SPEAKER_01I would hope there'd be some celebration from him. Question mark, but not too much. All right, moving on. Okay, hit it one more time. The spin. Okay. Big questions. Tell us about someone in your life who has shaped you into who you are.
SPEAKER_02Wow. Um you can take a sec.
SPEAKER_01That's a big one. That's a big question.
SPEAKER_04I guess I guess I guess the first person that pops to my mind is my nana.
SPEAKER_01It doesn't have to be Beyonce or whatever, you know.
SPEAKER_04Oh, I didn't even think about someone I didn't know in my life.
SPEAKER_01I'm just saying, your nana is a great choice.
SPEAKER_04But that could be an interesting spin. Um, yeah, so my dad's mom, my nana, um definitely is the one that instilled uh all of my um, I guess I would say like homestead forward interests. Um she lives on a tiny island in the Puget Sound called Orcas Island. Um and yeah, lives in a little farmhouse. Uh I grew up with she had horses there, she had chickens, she had a great garden that like always seemed like there was something in it. Um and yet I never seemed to see her actually gardening. So like big question mark that she just like had things just like really set the heck off. Self-sustaining. So self-sustaining. Cool. Um I mean, I'm sure she did plant stuff. It's not like I was, you know, watching her through a webcam or anything. But um, yeah, and uh yeah, she, you know, just did a lot of kind of your classic like trying to live sustainably things that I think you know nowadays it's interesting because it's such a trend to uh try to live more simply and do things self-sufficiently, but in her heyday, it's just like what you did to be alive.
SPEAKER_00Especially if you're in a remote place like that, right? It's not like you could just drive to the grocery store.
SPEAKER_04Exactly, yeah. And I mean she had I guess five, four or five kids and like not a lot of money, so it's like you're not canning stuff for the aesthetic, like you're canning stuff so you can like feed your family through the winter, yeah, exactly. So um, yeah, so I I mean I I grew up, you know, making jam with her, and uh for a long time she raised horses, and so I helped her. Like, I I don't know how much I'd really say I was helping to train them, but I spent a lot of time just doing what she told me to do with the horses, you know.
SPEAKER_03That's amazing.
SPEAKER_04Um, so I was definitely a certified horse girl.
SPEAKER_03Yay!
unknownThanks.
SPEAKER_04Honestly, who's not a horse squirrel? Regardless of your gender, I think everyone is a horse squirrel at heart.
SPEAKER_01I'd like to learn more about your perspective on that because I've never identified as a horse squirrel.
SPEAKER_04Okay, fair enough. Maybe I'll say a lot of people are a horse squirrel.
SPEAKER_01I mean, I'm gonna need to hear your definition of a horse squirrel.
SPEAKER_04Just the horses. That's the definition. Honestly. Sounds complex. I feel like as a kid, like you just like look at a horse and you're just like, wow.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, they're just incredible and they are majestic. Majestic and quite powerful, definitely.
SPEAKER_01Are you a horse squirrel?
SPEAKER_00Yeah. I used to ride horses when I was a kid.
SPEAKER_01Nice. I mean, you know, I got on a horse, but I was really scared of them. That's fair. I mean they are big.
SPEAKER_04They a healthy dose of respect and respect for them. Yeah. Uh they'll kill you. Yep. So yeah.
SPEAKER_01Um I was so scared of their butts because if you go behind them, they'll kick you.
SPEAKER_04That's where the power happens. Right.
SPEAKER_01Those rumps carry all the power. Yeah. So does mine. Anyway.
SPEAKER_04Back to your nana. Is she still with us? She is. Yeah. She's uh I want to say she's 86.
SPEAKER_01And has she uh come to your farm home?
SPEAKER_04Yeah, she last year um when Matt and I got married, um, she came to Bend and she also visited some time before then, I believe, just really briefly, kind of a spontaneous. It's uh hard to get off the island, especially now. Um the ferries are buku because of all the tourists and stuff. So it used to be when I was a kid, back in mind's eye, you could just roll up to the ferry like an hour early and get on the ferry. Now you have to make a reservation like a week in advance. Oh my gosh, yeah. Super surprising, yeah. And I mean it's got like kind of a problem for the local people that live on islands.
SPEAKER_00Um it should be local reserve seats.
SPEAKER_04I think that's a really good idea. Some degree of like flexibility with like the ferry guys when you're like, hey, I live here and I really need to get to the mainland. I'm sure that they will pull a few strings.
SPEAKER_00How far is it from the mainland?
SPEAKER_04Um, Orcas is one of the farther islands, so it's about uh I think direct the ferry line takes about an hour to get there, but it's usually the last stop. So you usually will stop at Lopez and then Shaw and then Orcas. So the whole thing is like an hour and a half ride. Wow. And then obviously you have to drive from the mainland. Yeah, you know, so it's definitely involved to get there. Um but it's a very cute island, super charming. Um I loved visiting there, and uh, I kind of felt like I like more or less partially grew up there.
SPEAKER_01So I was curious how she um like, did she seem proud of you about all the stuff you're doing that she taught you to do? Seems kind of a bit like a big deal. If I were her, I'd be pretty excited. That's a really good question.
SPEAKER_04I don't know that she's ever explicitly said like that she's proud of me, or like, oh, that's so dope, or you know, typical things Nana's saying. Yeah, no, she's definitely like expressed excitement about things. Um like when I got our chickens, uh she was excited that we were getting chickens, and she like you know, gave me the download of like don't bother doing XYZ and here's how many chickens you can fit in your coop and you know, whatever stuff like that. Um I'd like to think she's proud of me.
SPEAKER_01That's really a big thing that she gave you.
SPEAKER_04For sure. Yeah, I definitely I mean, I think we get so much influence like from so many places in our life. You know, I feel like it can be hard to like pinpoint exactly where our interests come from, but for sure, like I mean, from five years old I was running around on a farm. Yeah, it's no surprise that now I'm doing the same thing running around on a farm.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_04It's amazing. So yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_00Wow.
SPEAKER_01Wow, Jude. Wow, what a guy. Wow. I never asked you your pronouns. Oh, she her. Uh yeah, I knew them, but I didn't know if you wanted to say them.
SPEAKER_04I yeah, forgot to mention.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. There you go. Well, thanks for telling us about your uh sheep. Thank you. Yeah, I mean, thanks for thanking me.
SPEAKER_00Homesteading inspiration.
SPEAKER_04It's like when you like go to the grocery store and you like buy like a you know specific thing and they're like, oh, have a good day, hope you enjoy that. And you're like, Yeah, hope you too.
SPEAKER_01Crap. Awkward. I'll write your letter. Yeah. All right. Um, let's go um eat some turkey outside.
SPEAKER_04Outside turkey.
SPEAKER_00Outside turkey.
SPEAKER_01That's it.
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